Update #2

So Joseph took his ASVAB test and scored in the 93 percentile which is AWESOME!!! Way to go Joseph!! :) So he can Qualify for just about anything now. We have been looking more into the Air force rather than the Army and are hoping to be able to get accepted into that. They have to do a waiver with us because we have one too many kids and so they have to check your credit and stuff like that. So I don't know how long that will take but hopefully we can get into the Air force because from people we have talked to they treat their people a lot better. So we are just hoping to be able to get in and then we will make more decisions on what Jobs we will do. We are shying away from special forces now despite that is what Joseph really wanted to do. We hear if we want to keep our family intact and together then we better not do special forces. SO that is what is going on thus far. It sounds like when he does enlist that it would be not till October/ November when he would start basic. I plan to live in the Meridian Kuna area while he does that and that could be around six months of not seeing each other and very seldom actually talking to each other. So back to our mission days of writing lots of letters. So there's a heads up for thus far. Hopefully we can know more soon.